Posts in category "friendly advice"

10 things my White friends aren't allowed to lie about during Black History Month

10 things my White friends aren't allowed to lie about during Black History Month
Black History Month, founded by Carter G Woodson in 1926, is a time for everyone to celebrate the contributions that Black people have made to the past, present, and future of society. America is a cultural melting pot, and for most of us, having friends of other ethnicities is a natural part of life. For the... Read more »

5 symptoms of the grim disease affecting women with tattoos and piercings

5 symptoms of the grim disease affecting women with tattoos and piercings
There is a serious issue going on in the world today that needs to be addressed. Millions of people suffer in silence everyday, left behind by a world too preoccupied with the trappings of technology and popular culture to care about those who require help. In order to highlight the growing need for concern and... Read more »

The Ten Sexting Commandments

A few years back, this cute dude I knew asked me to send him a nude. Something told me not to trust his ass. So when I got home I took a screengrab of a porno starring a post-op transsexual showing off his/her brand new functional vag by playing with a cucumber. I sent it... Read more »
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Why the racist Straight Outta Compton casting call is a bigger deal than you think

Why the racist Straight Outta Compton casting call is a bigger deal than you think
Wanna see some bullshit? As many of my readers know, in addition to doing music I do a lil acting. Working actors join actors unions (I’m with SAG/AFTRA) to get fair treatment and pay, to make sure things are on point. So I knowwww that SAG/AFTRA is gonna be all over this agency Sande Allesi... Read more »

5 reasons why I wanna marry Netflix, and why you should too.

5 reasons why I wanna marry Netflix, and why you should too.
Being a recording artist makes my life nuts. I travel, I keep vampire hours, and I never know when I’ll have free time. Even now, I am writing this blog while I am on a phone call with my web designer discussing a new site rebuild. My life is nuts and I really don’t have... Read more »

How I found out I'm a slut... and why you might be one, too.

How I found out I'm a slut... and why you might be one, too.
These days, in the post Sex and The City era, it’s pretty much common knowledge that chix love getting laid just as much as dudes. We post dirty memes, talk openly about our Man-Crushes, even brag about our conquests just like the bros. Cuz, you know…why not? But still, there are hella people who aren’t... Read more »
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Why the "Does Not Play Well with Others" comment on your report card set you up to fail

Why the "Does Not Play Well with Others" comment on your report card set you up to fail
Today, I learned a valuable lesson about collaboration. And the true importance of being able to play well with others.   From kindergarten we’re taught it’s important to get along with everyone. So much so that teachers made a note of it on our report cards. But life isn’t always as simple as learning to... Read more »

You're doing it wrong: How to stop having bad safe sex

I would like to start by saying that sex is awesome. I don’t think there’s any better form of free entertainment. But what’s not so awesome is the escalating numbers of new HIV infections and unwanted pregnancies per year. Bummer, right?   As a person who thinks about sex far more often than she actually... Read more »

Who Wants to Be "A Boss?" 3 lessons I learned from people who already made it

Who Wants to Be "A Boss?" 3 lessons I learned from people who already made it
“You have to clearly define your goals so that you know exactly what you want to accomplish. That way nobody can ever deter you from your path.” This is the first bit of advice ever given to me by Candi Carter, a badass women who spent 15 years at The Oprah Winfrey Show until it... Read more »
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DRAMA: Are your friends making you unsuccessful?

DRAMA: Are your friends making you unsuccessful?
Juneteenth is an American holiday that honors the announcement of the abolition of slavery in all states in the USA on June 19th, 1865. It’s kind of a big deal. In the spirit of freedom and liberty and all that good stuff, I decided I wanted to share my thoughts on a particular type of... Read more »